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Permalink Reply by ⓃⓘⓏⓏⓘ on -
People usually Grow apart due 2 lack of communication.....lack of Unity,LOVE & most importantly GOD
Us humans allow the devil to mess up our lyfs....the devil can never make u 2 something u don't want 2 do..... he can only tempt u......same thing 4 God aswel.....If don't involve God in the beginning of the relationship b4 getting married....it mite not b a happy 1
some marriages are short & bitter but some are long & unhappy.
IF people do divorce ... don't worry God heals & forgive ;)
“You can measure the happiness of a marriage by the number of scars that each partner carries on their tongues, earned from years of biting back angry words.”
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Permalink Reply by memcy on -
Biblical decision making begins with a willingness to submit your intentions to God's perfect will and humbly follow his direction. The problem is that most of us don't know how to figure out exactly what God's will is in every decision we face—especially the big, life-altering decisions.
Begin with prayer. Frame your attitude into one of trust and obedience as you commit the decision to prayer. There's no reason to be fearful in decision making when you are secure in the knowledge that God has your best interest in mind. Jeremiah 29:11
"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."It's unlikely that God will reveal his plan if he knows already that you won't obey. It is absolutely essential that your will be completely submitted to God's. When your will is humbly and fully submitted to the Master, you can have confidence that he will illuminate your path. Proverbs 3:5-6
Trust in the Lord with all your heart;
do not depend on your own understanding.
Seek his will in all you do,
and he will show you which path to take.This is a common question and one that is often mishandled. Satan is blamed for everything evil and while there is a certain sense in which that is true, it fails to take into consideration all the other issues like our own personal responsibilities for our own actions. It’s too easy for us to blame the devil and excuse ourselves, as the comic, Flip Wilson, used to say, “The devil made me do it.” People are inclined to blame the devil in order to remove their guilt, justify their actions, and ignore their responsibility and the things God wants to teach them through their suffering. This has been true from the very beginning as we see so clearly with Eve’s answer in blaming the serpent when faced with her sin in the garden. Adam too had his scapegoat in blaming Eve and even the Lord, i.e., “the woman made me do it, the one you gave me.” Certainly, as the deceiver and liar, Satan instigated the temptation, but Eve responded with negative volition, unbelief, and disobedience, and Adam failed to stay true to his responsibility as the leader in his family.
But there are two things we should not assume:
(1) That everything evil that happens to us is the result of direct Satanic attack. Though he is indirectly involved, some of what happens is simply the result of life in a fallen world.
(2) We should not assume that all our suffering is the product of our own sin or indifference to the Lord.
In conclusion, Leave your marriage Life to HIM(the Creator, and finisher of our Faith).. there is nothing impossible unto HIM.. For what is impossible unto Men is possible unto GOD.
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Permalink Reply by Tehana on -
What I meant that, the devil will only attack Gods haven of purity and blessings which is matrimonial grounds, not that we have the devil to blame but for using easy access out and whilst one can only stand firm in faith, all in all, I strongly believe that in all our daily lives, we need to stand guard making sure, that we will not allow intrusion into our marriage knowing full well that He (devil) cannot attack Gods dwelling which is your heart but your mind, and in this, I must say, the people you interact with, the things you see, the words we speak..............etc, etc
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Permalink Reply by memcy on
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of your eyes has caused you to sin plucked it out or our hand cut it etc.. etc...
I SUPPOSE...
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Permalink Reply by Splen※did on -
:)) :)) Just passing through, All above 'read and absorb, dropped my piece ;))
Bible writers recognized that all married couples will have problems as a result of human imperfection.
In the face of a marital storm, living by Bible standards can often keep a marriage afloat and bring it into calmer waters Akariva sensed that his marriage had lost the sparkle it once had. Hence, he left his wife and moved in with Adi Lusiana , who had abandoned her husband. How did things work out? Within a few months, Akariva admitted that living with DiLusi was "not quite so easy as I imagined it would be." Why not? Human failings were just as evident in his new partnership as they had been in the old one. To make matters worse, his hasty and selfish decision got him into serious financial problems. Furthermore,Di Lusiana's children were emotionally crushed by the radical change in their family life.
As this experience illustrates, when a marriage encounters rough weather, abandoning ship is rarely the answer. On the other hand, in the face of a storm, living by the moral values of God's Word, the Bible, can often keep a marriage afloat and bring it into calmer waters.
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Permalink Reply by Pantherr on -
I just wanna cheat with you Tehana...all night long!! :) :) ..ra loto ceqe!!
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Permalink Reply by memcy on
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I leave you with a story... if u thinking of cheating please think twice....You may or may not believe it but the truth is it happened or it’s happening to be precise. There are lessons to be learned here just take time to read this little few passages they might save your life or a friends life.
My friend has been married for 5 years now. They have a 2 year little daughter. Like any other couple they do have their ups and downs, anyway that 's life. One day just after they had a fight over differences of opinion, the wife was doing her normal shopping at their local mall, when she met her long time varsity ex-boy friend. After a chit-chat, she discovered that he is doing well for himself and he is running quite a few tenders under his company. They exchanged numbers, from that day they started talking over the phone until plans were made to meet but how?
That 's when the varsity boyfriend came with the plan that they should meet in Cape Town to spend a week together. She had to lie to her husband and claim she is going to a work conference at Cape Town for a week. Which she did and her husband took her to the airport on a Sunday. The ex-boyfriend had everything organized; the plane ticket and a nice beach holiday resort for both of them to enjoy. She left on Sunday evening to Cape Town and arrived 2 hours later to a very romantic evening with her ex-boyfriend.
After the evening romance they made love but without a condom, off course they have known each other for a long time she thought. For the next days to come they had such a jolly quad, biking, cable riding. wining and dining at top restaurants and cafe's, something she hardly did with her husband. They enjoyed everything money can buy until she left on Saturday back to Joburg. They had to use different flights to avoid being seen together (u know people talk).
She was waiting for her husband to come and fetch her when she received a call from her ex-boyfriend. He told her that he was HIV-positive and the whole thing was not a co-incident when they met at the mall. The reason why he infected her with the disease was because he was jealous of the family she has and the beautiful woman she has become and the fact that he was financially successful but he is not happy because he knows that he is dying.
At that moment she just stood there and froze. Thinking what do I do now because it was already too late to take anti-retro viral. Even if she lay a charge against him, it will only be but to expose herself for cheating her husband. That' s when she quickly took a taxi to her friends place. She told her friend everything that has just happened and ask for advice. Her friend told her to come clean with her man and tell the truth, anyway she has just lost everything and nothing to lose anymore. Which she did over the phone. To my surprise even today.
The husband went to fetch his wife at her friends place, he sat down with her and told her how much he loves her and reminded her of the vows he took at church with her and that it was a terrible mistake she has done which unfortunately she has to pay with her life. He told her that he is never going to leave her, he has forgiven her and he will stick by her side no matter what comes. Off-course she had to stay in another bedroom and he had to share the bed room with their little daughter. What's currently happening is that, the wife is terribly sick she might die anytime. He told me this because he was asking me for prayer support) because he believes as a group of friends praying together, the stronger the prayer might be.
And the other reason was that I should let u guys know of such happenings as a warning to those who are contemplating cheating to weigh if it’s worth it! As I sit down and think about this experience, I thought to my self: why him? But I cannot seem to come with an answer. Then it stroke me that maybe there are lessons here;" You never know what you got until....".
> The morale of the story being, As people we turn to undermine those who
>love us for a moment’s pleasure. We keep on chasing waterfalls rather
>than sticking to the rivers where we can swim with ease. To my brothers and
sisters love the one you are with …………….
Amen to that.
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Permalink Reply by Tehana on
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I guess in a sense, whilst one can't resist such temptations, so much has been put into ones marriage to try and salvage or spice up but then, there are marriages that we cant seem to fathom or control its destiny, they might look like a happy couple but deep within, ones heart is desparately crying knowing, he or she has spend such an effort to be entertaining, but then we still cant accept our doinggs, I cannot point out a finger at a woman or a man to blame but then both parties are accountable for such actions yet we seem to forget we have our spouses that are very important, but then we tend to prioritise other things then marriage, our kids, work, families, church, etc......... and when the alarm rings to warn you, its too late...............and here we go, crying and the one can only stand such furosity in that stage
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Permalink Reply by angelfargo on
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yea..... but then again.... you cant be aeting noodles all your life... its always good to spice things up
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Permalink Reply by Tehana on
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To cheat on your marriage not only carries a heavy penalty but would seriously cause emotional and physical breakdown in a sense you are unable to make the right decisions when it comes to sailing on rough waters which to a lot of us married ones, the only easy way out is to cheat, whilst some prefer to keep a low life on such in the intention of not harming your loved one, one can only ask, what happens if I get caught, the scene we will cause, the commotion we will endure too, the chaos and havoc your family will encounter and last but not the least, your kids..................we can always spice up our marriage by taking the extra mile, initiate such activities, dinner, movies, etc..............but do not entertain or even think of cheating on your loved one, the heart is the most delicate part of the body, once broken, its takes tremendous effort to heal such.............
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